“You know these days there are millions of ways for people to tell you how to be, how to act in public, what’s cool, what’s not, what’s beautiful, what’s not; And it’s really easy to become preoccupied by the idea of trying to be cool. Do you know what I think is better than being cool? It’s being happy. When someone criticizes you or says something behind your back, those words that they said about you is like you feel like that those words are written all over your face, all over you and then those words start to become echoes in your own mind, and then there’s a real risk that those words could become a part of how you see yourself. The moment that you realize that you are not the opinion of someone who doesn’t know you, or care about you, that moment when you realize that it’s like you’re clean.”
Thank you Tay!
I’m so tired of hearing women or maybe other people… saying this things about guys, or battling with them by degrading what they can do and what they can not. We, people have different abilities, whether it is about our scientific ability to bleed for a week without dying or be pregnant for nine months, if men have the same body as the women has, then what?
We have our weaknesses and strengths, and if you compare yourself by their weakness or the things that is very impossible for them to do, then you’re being a real idiot (sorry for the word)
I get that you want them to realize you are having troubles and they have to understand, then make them understand without saying things like this that you are like saying “we can do this and you can’t, because why it is impossible for you to do it.” People.
Just say that “I’m having a hard time please understand,” or don’t talk to them because it’s causing you pain in your ass.
Equality? How do people define this word? Is it the same treatment for all the people?
We love the concept of equality, the concept of equal rights for everyone, but I think we have different meaning for it. Some thinks that it is the same treatment for everyone, but for me, it is more than that.
Equality means having more tolerance in things, people and situations (of course except if it is a crime)
The phrase, “Where your right ends, my right begins and where my right ends your right begins.” sums up my idea of equality.
We have our own rights, we should be more tolerant about other people. If they like to be this way, then let them be, they are none of your business. If they are your friends, you can show that you care by telling them that what they are doing is ‘maybe’ wrong, but that is your limitation, if they want to do it still, let them. You show that you care and that’s all that you can do.
People knows what is wrong and what is right, even the concept of the ‘good and evil’ is different for all the people. We need to stop jumping conclusions about the way people are, if we do that then equality will never be achieved, and I think of how sensitive, intrusive and judge mental people are, equality is far from our hands.